{"id":149,"date":"2008-11-12T14:36:43","date_gmt":"2008-11-12T21:36:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.princessnybor.com\/?p=149"},"modified":"2010-05-04T23:20:10","modified_gmt":"2010-05-05T06:20:10","slug":"marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.princessnybor.com\/?p=149","title":{"rendered":"Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just read Keith Olbermann&#8217;s very eloquent argument on the subject of  marriage equality. I have posted a couple of passages below, but I  strongly encourage you to read the full article. This is an issue that  will become an embarrassment to our country.<\/p>\n<p>Think back  throughout the brief history of our nation. Every single time we  challenge progress and support hate because we cannot face change, the  change always wins in the end. Those who fight <strong><em>for change<\/em><\/strong> write the history books, and those who fight <strong><em>against it<\/em><\/strong> are always left behind. Always.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.msnbc.msn.com\/id\/27650743\/\" target=\"_blank\">Link to  original article<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>If you voted for this Proposition or support those who did or the  sentiment they expressed, I have some questions, because, truly, I do  not understand. Why does this matter to you? What is it to you? In a  time of impermanence and fly-by-night relationships, these people over  here want the same chance at permanence and happiness that is your  option. They don&#8217;t want to deny you yours. They don&#8217;t want to take  anything away from you. They want what you want\u00e2\u20ac\u201da chance to be a little  less alone in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Only now you are saying to them\u00e2\u20ac\u201dno. You  can&#8217;t have it on these terms. Maybe something similar. If they behave.  If they don&#8217;t cause too much trouble.  You&#8217;ll even give them all the  same legal rights\u00e2\u20ac\u201deven as you&#8217;re taking away the legal right, which they  already had. A world around them, still anchored in love and marriage,  and you are saying, no, you can&#8217;t marry. What if somebody passed a law  that said you couldn&#8217;t marry?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This part really does  interest me. If you oppose the right for gay couples to marry, please  help me understand why. I hear over and over again that it would  &#8220;weaken&#8221; the institution of marriage. HOW!?<\/p>\n<p>There are plenty of  issues I don&#8217;t agree with. For example, I don&#8217;t support the Iraq war.  But I would never dream of taking rights away from our troops. Yet, it  seems that many of the same people who cry out against abuse of our  troops are also waving signs of hate against &#8220;Adam and Steve&#8221;, just  because they want to get married. I don&#8217;t understand.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I keep hearing this term &#8220;re-defining&#8221;  marriage. If this country hadn&#8217;t re-defined marriage, black people still  couldn&#8217;t marry white people. Sixteen states had laws on the books which  made that illegal in 1967. 1967.<\/p>\n<p>The parents of the  President-Elect of the United States couldn&#8217;t have married in nearly one  third of the states of the country their son grew up to lead. But it&#8217;s  worse than that. If this country had not &#8220;re-defined&#8221; marriage, some  black people still couldn&#8217;t marry black people. It is one of the most  overlooked and cruelest parts of our sad story of slavery. Marriages  were not legally recognized, if the people were slaves. Since slaves  were property, they could not legally be husband and wife, or mother and  child. Their marriage vows were different: not &#8220;Until Death, Do You  Part,&#8221; but &#8220;Until Death or Distance, Do You Part.&#8221; Marriages among  slaves were not legally recognized.<\/p>\n<p>You know, just like marriages  today in California are not legally recognized, if the people are gay.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I  think this is one of those generational issues. Unfortunately, it seems  there is only so much change that any single generation can tolerate.   But this is a CHOICE. You have a choice to fight change, or to embrace  it.<\/p>\n<p>So the next time this issue comes up on a ballot, please  don&#8217;t vote for hate. Please don&#8217;t become obsolete. Please don&#8217;t become  an embarrassment to history. Support marriage equality.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just read Keith Olbermann&#8217;s very eloquent argument on the subject of marriage equality. I have posted a couple of passages below, but I strongly encourage you to read the full article. This is an issue that will become an embarrassment to our country. Think back throughout the brief history of our nation. 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